Influence

Most of us have learned ‘tips and tricks’ to influence others instead of changing who we are. Here are steps. First, other people are attracted to joy. Who wants to be around people who are serious all the time? Second, after food & water, people crave respect. Respect is energizing to both parties. Third, only […]

Bad Help

What is bad help? Bad help is 1. supporting change and 2. not wanting to start with ourselves. In other words, our lips say ‘yes’ and our actions say ‘no’. We all do it without realizing during times of conflict. I was at a Seek Change event last week and one of the small groups […]

Falling Down as a Leader

Falling Down as a Leader… The quickest way to pick yourself up off the floor when things aren’t going your way is to be grateful. THINKING of something to be grateful for is one thing, ACTING grateful is another. How do you practice the HABIT of gratitude? GO HELP SOMEBODY! The habit of gratitude builds […]

How ‘Rich’ Can ‘Poor’ Be?

Do you ever worry? ‘By worrying you can’t add a single moment to your lifespan.’ What causes worry? Slavery – concern over what you will eat, what you will wear and what parties you were not invited to… In other words – concern over being ‘rich’ in a temporal sense. What causes freedom? Poverty. If […]

Standing Out From the Crowd

CollaboraACTION is collaborating in word and deed on the work at hand in the best interests of the people involved even at short term risk of your money, power or reputation. What is insipid collaboration? Wishy-washy or common-place. For example, I recently had a plumber tell me he wanted nothing to do with solving a […]