What is bad help?
Bad help is 1. supporting change and 2. not wanting to start with ourselves. In other words, our lips say ‘yes’ and our actions say ‘no’.
We all do it without realizing during times of conflict.
I was at a Seek Change event last week and one of the small groups came up with this list of ‘good help’ and ‘bad help’ in times of conflict.
The takeaway – avoid giving bad help. It just makes your conflict worse.
Look at the list and START doing one thing that is ‘good help’, STOP doing one thing that is ‘bad help’, and CONTINUE doing one thing you already do to help.
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