2nd Nature? I Don’t Know What 1st Nature is…

I’ve heard of the term ‘2nd nature’ all my life and never understood what is was or why it mattered until the last few years. Here’s what I think: First, instinct is how we’re hard-wired. An example would be breathing. Next, first nature is something we have to think about, practice, and fail at like […]

Important Details – Why Falling Forward Matters

Why does ‘falling forward’ matter? It matters because you were born for a reason and you were born to be great and form greatness in others. Even when you fail, you must ‘fall forward’ (be introspective, learn and apply it), towards what you were born to BE and DO. Otherwise, you’ll never make it to […]

QUICK HIT on how to BUILD COMMUNITY and AUTHENTIC LEADERSHIP

Obstacle: As a leader, admit the fact that you’re naturally more interested in goals than developing people. Action: Instead of delegating a role/task because you don’t have time to do it (to achieve your goals), delegate it because you want to develop people. I, myself, my wife, children and colleagues can feel the difference. The […]

Leading a Double Life

There is a CRAVING for leaders with high integrity… I watched a clip from a movie called Margin Call (about the 2008 financial crisis, link to clip is in comments section below) and it’s a great example of duplicity. Duplicity is the opposite of integrity. Duplicity is believing you have integrity while doing the opposite. […]

Mustard Seed Moments

Have you ever seen a mustard seed? You can buy them in the spice section of a grocery store and they’re about the size of a pinhead. If you were to plant one, it would grow to the size of a bush as large as a tree – tall enough for birds to make their […]

The Biggest Obstacle to Integrity

The biggest obstacle to integrity is when your perception of who you are or character is out-of-sync with who you really are. In other words, how you show-up to others. Here’s an example – Winston, the CEO creates a new policy and everyone must follow the policy. But, Winston’s the worst violator! He’s out-of-sync and doesn’t […]

CONSTRUCTION BUDGET FOR EXCELLENCE

Have you sat-down to do the planning and determine the costs? Before you start construction you need to figure-out if you have the resources to finish. 1. Are your priorities in the order needed to be on-purpose? In all domains of your life, not just business? 2. Are your relationships in the order needed to […]

EXCELLENCE, NOT PERFECTION

EVERYONE has what they need to achieve excellence. Both life circumstances that help or hinder can accelerate achievement of excellence if you choose. What that means is just because someone is CEO of a company with abundant resources doesn’t mean it helps them achieve excellence. To achieve excellence, you clearly connect your identity to your […]

WHO We Are = WHAT We’re Doing + WHY We’re Doing It

It’s interesting, most of us don’t know WHO we are. Who incorporates 2 questions – WHAT & WHY. What we’re doing or performance is what we call the ‘mind’. Why we’re doing it or why we’re here is what we call the ‘heart’. When we know who we are, we know our IDENTITY. Finally, if […]

What Does ‘Nice’ Mean, Anyway?

HOW TO BECOME A GREAT CONVERSATIONALIST My sons take Latin at school and in a recent conversation, I learned from them that the meaning of the word ‘nice’ in Latin means ‘nothing’. So what? Here’s the point – what do most people do? Use ‘nice’ as a polite/likable way to fill the silence – when […]